When I started in student ministries at Calvary Church I was told “the relationships you build in a week of camp is the equivalent a year of youth group”.  I have absolutely found that to be the truth, the depth of relationship that is built with 24/7 access, it gives space for the good, the bad and the ugly, and then redemption.

This year, we ran a 2 week long English Camp.  You can imagine the relationships we build at camp have the opportunity to develop trust, vulnerability very quickly.  I am often surprised how often trust built on the basis of fun.  At camp, your insecurities are stripped away in the midst of complete silliness.  I watched as volunteers came out of their shells and sat as campers shared their hearts.   At one point, Rebecca and I joined a student in the camp dance to the song “star trekking” in a talent show.

I was reminded of the power of connecting power media, I have been told often times that “The Lauren Show” a daily video summary of camp is a highlight of the day, and that the videos can take you right back.  BUT, the biggest personal take away I have from camp isn’t a relationship with a student, or a life I watched be transformed, no this change was within me.

I have a much deeper respect for leaders of leaders after this camp.  Midway through I was reminded that sometimes I try too hard.  You see, in transition there are two typical responses, to cower or overpower.  I gave into the later, flexing my muscles… to try to gain respect and  naturally, it lead to some frustration. Yet what it comes to again and again in this life is letting go.

Star Trekkin’,  came as a result of this conversation as did some humble conversations of forgiveness.

In transition do you cower or overpower?  Do you have any tips for me as I manage transition to a new life?